Despite the frustration and disappointment associated with bad dates, they can impart valuable lessons about what to avoid in future encounters. Everyone experiences off days, but the people featured in the following stories had particularly noteworthy first dates and opted to share their experiences with the entire world. Don’t forget to check out our bonus section for a story that stands out from the ones below.

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Bonus: when the police show up to your first date.